My responsibility stops at high school graduation. The rest of the life, especially after college, I want them to better move out and not come back often, once a year is enough. I count them out as fully grown after they get their first jobs. They can do whatever they want to do, any job they like to pick except for sex workers, escorts, exotic dancers, drag queens, etc. And I always welcome the prodigal sons to come sleep on the bunk bed. If they want to be strippers, I can't agree. Way too dangerous a job to take, think about the Long Island serial killer and Jack the Ripper. Find something safer, such as waitresses, bar tenders, carpenter, electritian.
Free lodging with me until further notice.