一個烙印女說普娃變的相對成功的一些習慣。Discipline很重要,躺平的人一般沒有Discipline

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So, how did he study to to be able to clear some of the toughest exams in the country?

  1. He is very disciplined. We have been married for a little less than a year and in those 300 days, he woke up at the same time every day, ate at the same time, went to play badminton everyday. He showered twice a day even in winters. Washed his own clothes and kept everything in place without fail each and every single day (I am just opposite)
  2. I have never seen him snoozing alarm even if he has to go for inspection early morning or late at night. Never heard him saying “I am tired”.
  3. He loves studying. He studies still. He teaches me maths because he loves it and he wanted to change my view that maths suck (I have actually started to like maths). He is not one of those who was pushed into engineering. He did it because he loves it.

So, interest and discipline are the most important qualities of a top student.

Next, he taught me the best way to memorise anything. Most of the top students study like this. I wish I knew this before, I would have been an officer myself. Well it is never too late. Anyway, what he did was

Whenever he picked up any new book.

  • He skimmed through the entire book in 1–2 days and made a mind map of what he would be studying.
  • He then divided all the topics as per his schedule so that he could complete it within the stipulated time frame. He set daily, weekly, monthly, yearly goal. The happiness of conquering a goal kept him motivated.
  • After completing a topic, he scribbled down whatever he remembered or acted like he is explaining it to someone else. This made him realise the grey areas in his knowledge.
  • He kept first hour of his new day for revising what he studied a day before. So, on day 2 he would quickly revise what he studied on day 1, on day 3, he would revise what he studied on day 1 and day 2, on the last day of the week he would revise the entire week's study.
  • On the last day of the week, he solved questions related to the topics he completed in that week. He would do the same at the end of every month.
  • He solved as many questions as he can and wrote as many tests as he can.

So, revise, revise, revise, write, write, write is his mantra.

His hard work, smartness and discipline paid off beautifully.

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烙印那種天天為公司事琢磨的Discipline, 估計沒幾個老中能做到 -mjnew- 給 mjnew 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:11:51

太累了,老中崇尚以小博大以弱勝強一勞永逸 -fakegreen- 給 fakegreen 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:13:48

又來了,天天政治學習:批評與自我批評……小時候的trauma, PTSD ? -成功的兔- 給 成功的兔 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:20:55

哈哈哈,真是的呢 -兩女寶媽- 給 兩女寶媽 發送悄悄話 兩女寶媽 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:22:28

哈哈,這個紫檀的,沒人有Discipline, 否則誰會天天來這,所以無法理解 -mjnew- 給 mjnew 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:25:25

推己及人 -成功的兔- 給 成功的兔 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:28:43

要是華人這麽做,另一套說詞:推的,機器人,就會學習,怎麽能沒有體育…… -成功的兔- 給 成功的兔 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:28:09

難怪印度這麽多宗教,這種都是Discipline的東西,印度人看樣子適合做這些 -mjnew- 給 mjnew 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:24:35

早就有了, 大名鼎鼎的衡水中學。 :-) -WaldenPond- 給 WaldenPond 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:14:39

進大學後,和大學後還能這樣的,基本沒人。小時候被榨幹了 -mjnew- 給 mjnew 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:26:07

Discipline挺重要的,娃的體育club教練就很強調這個,還要打考勤呢。 -qqdragon- 給 qqdragon 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 10:43:19

確實就是這樣,持之以恒,鐵棒磨成針 -HappyWed- 給 HappyWed 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 11:09:36

並不是所以印裔都自律,不少印一代到是轉空子占便宜的手段一流 -washer1008- 給 washer1008 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 11:30:44

我們高中不都是這樣過來的麽 -紐約故事- 給 紐約故事 發送悄悄話 紐約故事 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 16:29:37

不同之處是要講出來,所以烙印比我們會講。he is explaining it to someone else. -紐約故事- 給 紐約故事 發送悄悄話 紐約故事 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 02/13/2023 postreply 16:33:38

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