ZT：Allow your child to blossom

By Sadhguru

“The first thing to do when bringing up a child is not to influence your child's mind with your distorted mind. That is the first step you need to take. Yes, a child can become exposed to many other rotten minds -- the possibility is very much there, because rotten minds are everywhere in the world. You cannot totally isolate your child from that. But you can at least make sure your child is not influenced by the distortion of your mind.”

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所有跟帖： 

• 放任自流的前提是孩子具備正常的心智。所以放手前先弄清楚你的孩子是否具備相對成熟的心智。 -WXCTEATIME- ♂ (272 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 06:29:36

• 自己不影響自己的孩子，等外人影響？而且也不可能，孩子一生下來就在不斷的觀察學習，除非自己不管孩子， -N.- ♀ (68 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 07:11:10

• 左派之謬論。 -borisg- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 07:22:36

• 是啊，同看不懂。覺得自己不好？出錢出力養別人想法的孩子？暈 -成功的兔- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 07:35:56

• 文章assume 父母思想都是distorted. -545f- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 08:05:34

• 發現老印出的心靈導師巨多，怪不得平常老印也是特能侃 -Tufa- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 07:22:06

• "distorted mind"??? 說誰呢 -白骨先生- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 08:28:25

• 很多父母都挺正常的，都極力在幫孩子。主要是培養孩子學會自己思考和做決定的能力 -houselover- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/06/2019 postreply 08:41:04