然而你的敏感好勝often does you diservice,因為不同的聲音很容易讓你變得defensive,而偏離討論本身的話題,變成個人的勝負之爭。而此時的你,因為過於急於戰勝對手,反複地運用emotionally charged language, 隻會使情況越來越糟...
just my humble opinion - might be useful next time you are about to embark on an emotionally charged 'debate'...
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