2024年10月24日，劉曉慶官宣獲得第39屆華鼎獎終身成就獎。 74歲的劉曉慶，正是該闖的年紀. 她說女人不應該被年齡打敗. 劉曉慶的“活”，有一種隻為自己而活的果敢，“我行我素”或“敢想敢做”的價值評判.
而通過成就男人證明自我的成就感，又讓她對每段感情都很上頭，觀眾經由她塑造的那些“管理男人，操縱男人，培養男人”的著名女人，來確認她。
其次很難得的一點是，建立在她對性別的認同之上，她對男性同樣沒有敵意和競爭性，她覺得女人應該是水，男人在高處就退去讓他獨自閃耀光芒，男人在低穀，就湧來—她說不想靠男人上位，不能依附男人，相反自己成為女強人後要提攜男人，但同時她又不停戀愛結婚，和男人並沒有劃清界限。
劉曉慶說得更對。男人隻有個體。不能用群體來評判—但很少有人敢像她這樣，大聲說出“男人隻是個體”這句話。 在這個習慣用“男人應該怎樣”的公式來評判異性的社會中，她像個逆行者，她不評判男人的群體性，不分析性別的.
“男人嘛，隻有個體，沒有群體。” 劉曉慶這句話，真的絕了。 第一遍聽，有點愣，第二遍咂摸，後背發麻。 你看看她這輩子愛過的男人，小提琴手、導演、小她十歲 .
劉曉慶的觀點強調個體獨特性，反對以性別標簽概括全體男性。在社會常以‘男人應該怎樣’預設角色的語境下，她拒絕群體化評判，主張基於個人特質而非性別身份去認識他人。這不僅體現女性獨立意識，也挑戰了刻板印象的束縛。她的擇偶經曆——跨越年齡與職業差異，正是這一理念的實踐：看重的是具體人格與情感聯結，而非性別屬性。這種視角有助於推動更包容、真實的兩性關係認知。
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Liu's story brought me to see The Hours, a film that won Nicole Kidman an Academy Award, but most movie critics are slowly forgetting about it. But I saw that movie for the first time recently, and it is probably my favorite Nicole Kidman film. She's had a very strong career since."
https://youtu.be/bOK3plYGGnQ?si=_qLHUoyDGyTBW5H9
They are talented, amazing actors: Salma Hayek (Frida), Nicole Kidman (The Hours), Diane Lane (Unfaithful), Julianne Moore (Far From Heaven), Renee Zellweger (Chicago)... all GREAT, talented actresses!!! 
? Must be a tough choice!!!
https://youtube.com/shorts/VY5VnS-jLNs?si=OSH3b5KSMEa9ENql So love that Nicole’s Mum and Dad were there for that wonderful moment! 
Nicole Kidman had been going through hell during her divorce from TC, and she poured her heart and soul into her work. Hence, she won an Academy Award for her role!! Well done
"I love the movie. Virginia Woolf was an idol to me, and I never thought I'd be inspired by her this much through this film. Nicole Kidman is exceptional; she's unrecognizable, and she shines brightly in this film, as do Julianne Moore and Meryl. What can I say, but Nicole Kidman deserves her Academy Award for this, with or without Harvey Weinstein and Miramax. The score is also superb to the point that I made it my background music when I'm writing lol."
"The poet will die, the visionary"—Virginia Woolf, The Hours
"Nobody has ever given a reason why men should be their brother's keepers, and you've had every example, and you see the examples around you, of men perishing by the attempt to be their brother's keepers" --Ayn Rand, Mike Wallace Interview 1959
The Hours chronicles a day in the life of three very different individuals, all of whom share the feeling that they have been living their lives for someone else.
Virginia Woolf (Nicole Kidman) lives in a suburb of London in the 1920s as she struggles to begin writing her first great novel, Mrs. Dalloway, while also attempting to overcome the mental illness that threatens to engulf her.
Laura Brown (Julianne Moore), a young wife and mother in post-World War II Los Angeles, is reading Mrs. Dalloway, and is so deeply affected by it that she begins to question the life she has chosen for herself.
Finally, Clarissa Vaughan (Meryl Streep) is a modern-day Mrs. Dalloway in contemporary New York, planning a party for her friend and former lover who is slowly losing his fight with AIDS.
Why is The Hours (2002) my favorite movie? "Well? So, that is what we do. That is what people do. They stay alive for each other." Gets me every time. Thanks for this. "Happiness comes in moments, not months." "My life has been stolen from me. It's my LIFE"-- Famous Author. @greatsewing6061
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Overcast...Uninvolving... These actors do not interact... They deliver individual soliloquies as if they had never met before each scene....
Does Jeff Daniels look like he ever had anything to do with Ed Harris...?
Or does Meryl Streep look like she ever had anything to do with her lover or her daughter?
Only the music is good...Loved the novel... adore the opera... but not this film... 5 times I have watched it...It does not click.
https://youtu.be/TgsPtQlC_AI?si=nLxLv23ssnJiTvCo
Three women, separated by a span of nearly 80 years, find themselves weathering similar crises, all linked by a single work of literature.
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https://youtube.com/shorts/fNyIMDMlfJo?si=kPSwnI42JZt_U3FT
You have to date yourself: self-partnership. A woman with no friends or a tiny circle isn't a red flag... she's mastered herself.
https://youtube.com/shorts/4vbDDdohVco?si=K6ET4fK911F2gzEy
Life is only a moment:
https://youtube.com/shorts/BGcBfjO51z0?si=hWnRZ8sGmJRJW4Gt
"Some people live a lifetime in a minute." One of the best quotes in this movie. Her voice is sparkling ("Donna" —Actress: Gabrielle Anwar—that woman is the epitome of grace, style, and class), and her demeanor is so exquisite; she's sweet and refined indeed. <<Scent of a Woman>> is such a remarkable movie! I just realized this entire movie is named after this one scene.
Yes, the character is blind (though neither actor Vittorio Gassmann in Profumo di neither Donna nor actor Al Pacino in Scent of a Woman is really blind). ;)
Pacino, who won his Oscar for this role, is an institution. Pacino absolutely deserved the Oscar for this performance. Outstanding movie!
The moment: When she says "afraid of making a mistake" and quickly glances over to Charlie, that's all it takes! The actress is very convincing. Just the right amount of feeling and restraint, you might have when meeting a charming stranger.
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