一件事，可以做，可以不做，都好。 Therefore 做事的主因： enjoy the process
結果不重要，但對於我個人希望看到好結果，他人有各種不同的advice.
我的體會是：可以聽取各方意見，但 trust your own judgement 。
別人不在自己shoes 給出的建議往往片麵。'not knowing the problem. it is easy to give answer'。no one really what is good for you. Even social science not real science.
而且no one really know what happen in future. 所以trust 自己的直覺 and nature flow 可能更好。更體會宇宙的synchronicity 我個人經驗如此。
然後take easy and enjoy... flexible. you can change things later.
trust inner guidance.因為隻有它和divine 接壤。
make decsion and do things when one's heart is very quiet -- more connect with divine wisdom
let go various noise. inner wisdom 會慢慢加強，life 會越來越easy & flow
