If they don't want to advance their careers it's OK to look like a typical Wal-Mart shopper. No wonder I saw some women wearing things that's so out-dated in gatherings at a Chinese community. I thought they got their clothese from some small town's market in Chinese many years ago as you can't even find them in China anymore. What to wear project a person's personality and taste before he/she shows anything deeper. I believe they are great people but are just not attractive.
Even you have given up for yourself, still think that your children are watching you as a role model. In character, personality, and fashion.
