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讀到星壇網友原點MM的心理學小知識,想起在Instagram上看到一則“6個簡單心理學技巧“,覺得也很有意思,在這裏和大家分享,下麵每一條“注釋”算是自己一點點心得吧,
1. If someone insults you, pause for a second and look at them and say "Are you okay?"
(注1:避免了他人99%的問題成為自己的問題。)
2. If you think someone is lying, look at their eyes and don't say anything.
(注2:尷尬的一定不是自己。)
3. If you're in an argument, keep your voice calm, it'll give them the impression that you're winning the argument.
(注3:這是避免衝突(爭吵)的一個好方法!)
4. Good posture increases confidence. Spread your body out and take up more space, it'll lead to increased confidence.
(注4: 可以做小個實驗,錄一個自己的視頻,看看是否認識自己,也許會驚到,當然開美顏濾鏡不算。如果認識,恭喜!)
5. Your eyes dilate when talking to a person you love.
(注5: 帶著愛意注視所愛的人,表達出來善念,很多人不習慣盯著對方的眼睛說話交流,應該成為一種自然而然的習慣。)
6. If you're not following me you're probably never going to see me again. If you are,
congratulations you're growing mentally every day.
(注6:共同見證彼此的成長。)