給她最後通牒，如果再跟這個男人有任何聯係，離婚！Really show her your anger, pain and

broken heart. 男人也是人，憑什麽要把痛苦隱藏起來？ 那樣不健康，也不公平。 

沒有女人不喜歡被愛，被關心，被體貼，被嗬護，被理解，為了你的兩個孩子和你還愛她，好好經營你們的婚姻，相信用心重建的婚姻會比以前更幸福更美好。

Something you can try：

50 WAYS TO TALK AND TOUCH LIST（copied from somewhere.)

1. Express confidence in one of your spouse's decisions

2. Share dessert with one fork

3. What was "your song" when you were dating? Call your spouse and sing it to them.

4. Surprise visit your spouse at their office or home and give them a kiss... and then leave.

5. Play footsie next time you sit together

6. Learn a new joke today and share it with your spouse

7. Ask how your spouse's day went... and really listen

8. Kiss your spouse upon waking

9. Kiss your spouse before sleeping

10. Caress your spouse's hand

11. Touch your spouse's cheek or hand while driving

12. Rub shoulders next time you sit next to each other

13. Sit on your spouse's lap or sit them on yours

14. Compliment something your spouse is wearing

15. Call your spouse out of the blue to let them know you are thinking of them

16. Give your spouse a neck or shoulder massage

17. Share a story from the news or your day that you thought was interesting

18. What about dancing before dinner? No one's looking.

19. Tell your spouse that if you had to do it all over again, you'd choose them

20. Share a problem - thank your spouse for their concern

21. Play with your spouse's hair while talking in bed

22. Fall asleep holding hands

23. Remind your spouse to drive safely next time they leave the house

24. Call your spouse at work with the latest news.

25. Have a tickle "fight"

26. Say "I'm sorry" about a mistake you recently made

27. Think of 3 ways your spouse has made you a better person ... tell them now

28. Compliment your spouse on your favorite physical trait

29. Play Twister and let yourself laugh out loud

30. Look at your spouse when they are unaware of your gaze ... share your feelings

31. Share what you most admire about your spouse

32. Have a "remember when?" moment.

33. Thank your spouse for helping you through a challenging time in your life

34. Find a reason to touch your spouse when you are in the same room

35. Dig out the wedding album and reminisce

36. Hold hands under the table

37. Brush your mate's hair out of his/her eyes

38. Straighten his tie, being sure to touch him with love

39. Button or zip her dress, being sure to touch her with love

40. Knead the same dough together

41. Kiss in the elevator when no one is looking

42. Express confidence in your spouse's ability to overcome a problem

43. Listen to your spouse's worries - ask how you can help

44. Make your spouse's lunch for the day ... deliver it with a kiss

45. Send your spouse a fax with your special "code words" for I Love You!

46. Turn off your spouse's alarm clock...wake them with a massage

47. Kiss the back of your spouse's neck while he/she is reading

48. Before parting, tell your spouse you can't wait to see him/her again

49. An extra hug for no reason at all never hurt anyone

50. "Spoon" your mate while sleeping(睡覺時從後麵抱著對方的身體，對方會感覺到很被愛。）

 

所有跟帖： 

• 說實在的，好累。好想就一覺睡過去再也不要醒來。 -真的老了- ♂ (278 bytes) () 08/26/2015 postreply 18:58:51

• 其實人是個人體內個人荷兒蒙的產物。你們兩個是不同的生物物體而已。沒必要非而已綁在一起。別用別人的錯誤懲罰自己。往前看，吃好睡好玩 -吃羊肉串的小貓- ♂ (224 bytes) () 08/26/2015 postreply 23:03:54

• 去找一個好的谘詢師。多試幾個。會對你有幫助。另外希拉利有自傳，她麵臨的長期配偶不忠的問題。 -翩翩~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 08/27/2015 postreply 06:09:26