Love Never Hurts

It is my first post on my blog.

This is a thought I had about a month ago. True love never hurts.

Some people say: I am hesitant to love as I am afraid of being hurt. Lots of sayings go around in this world like: Love like you have never been hurt.

If you get hurt because of love, the love is not pure or true.The love that is not true is an investment. You do something with an expectation of return even if you might not realize it. That explains why you feel bitter, disappointed, hurt when you don't have the true love.

Here is a key feature to differentiate true love from not: you have no expectation of return from the other party. The return can be emotion, labor, finance, time anything else. Any return is a surprise to you as you do not expect it. When there is love, there might be some return or reward but that is the by-product not your expectation.

所有跟帖： 

• 你這個觀點和我閨蜜老公的說法是一致的， -波斯貓- ♀ (66 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 09:33:48

• 超過50%的時候帶給彼此的是正能量就可以了。 -longhand- ♂ (0 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 10:09:44

• 說的沒啥錯誤，但是 -塞上孤星- ♂ (120 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 12:33:30

• 我知道什麽地方不對勁兒， -波斯貓- ♀ (86 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 13:21:28

• 這聽著象真空裏得愛 -銀花花- ♀ (82 bytes) () 12/24/2013 postreply 14:17:59

• 這種想法可以毀人一生的。愛當然要互相的。單戀怎麽會有幸福。 -yukimama- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/25/2013 postreply 07:56:38