蹲監獄和出軌的關聯

Barbra Streisand - The Way We Were

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今天慢慢讀到這一章節：

 

 

“We suirvived, but even so, we crossed over to the otherside. We were gradually moving away from the world of the living towards the realm of shadows. Stripped of everything that had made up our former lives, each day we drew colser to the grave. This detachement was difficult. Because of our youth, we were vibrant with passions, impulses and rebellion. But we had to stifle them, and learn to live without them, in order to stop suffering. Paradoxically, this anguish was intoxicating.  The darkness enabled me to convers with death, to venture dangerously close to it,......”

 

這裏有人大概說出軌是一個錯誤，人們在不斷上演著出軌繼而失敗的故事，讓理智沒有passion的人笑看出軌而又回歸的人，演出著一幕一幕的無用的沒有價值的出軌的經曆。

 

我想我們出軌的生命在某些人的眼裏如同在監獄裏生活20年的人，獄中的她說到，"因為年輕，我們充滿著激情，衝動和反抗。但是我們不得不壓抑，學會去除內心的激情，衝動和反抗去生活，為的是停止遭受折磨。"

 

不出軌了，就是將自己放進了自己情感的監獄，

出軌了，就是釋放自己的激情，衝動和反抗對配偶不滿的情愫。

 

所以無論怎樣生活，我們都是鮮活的生命，不應當受到任何的審判？

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