When I was in a English class in DC many years ago, the teacher told us that her mother said to her before marriage:
If you want your hu*****and go home every night, you should make breaskfast before he leaves the door and make a dinner before back to home.
Chinese woman is spoiled, they believe that they are always princess. In fact they are not. If they are, because their hu*****ands love them.If there is no love, nothing is left.