An emotional woman is sexier. Needing, wanting, dreaming and lack of rational would make a woman appealing to men in my eyes.
To immigrant to another country is very challenging and will most likely make a lot of family dysfunctional. In the survival stage, rational and inner peace inside a woman will help her man to cope with difficulties.
I did not read the original novel, but I think I would like each character in the novel without too much judgment. There will be blood inside each of them. Life is to live and they all tried their best to survive. I wish everyone to enjoy life, but life is tough from the beginning of born. No matter what status in their life journeys, I respect them as who they are, their emotions and their choices.
Being independent in both emotion and financial does make a woman more respectful and appealing, however to trust the hu*****and, to rely on the hu*****and and yield to cooperate with the hu*****and will also highlight a woman’s character.
As talking about a man, I think to regard his wife’s sexual desire as his priority will make him more appealing in my eyes.
The best part:
最後說一條我最喜歡這部小說的地方：我喜歡作者象個旁觀者一樣來講述這個故事，不帶任何自己對人物的評價和喜好，不是去批評或者是讚揚某個人，某種生活方式。有時候，生活就是生活，不管你喜歡不喜歡，它就是以它獨特的方式存在著。一個很善良的人，也許就會在某時某刻傷害另一個人。一個很有責任的人，也許就會去欺騙另一個愛他的人。他們真的一夜間，因為某個行動就給打上壞人，無賴，騙子的標簽嗎？多一些這樣的故事，就讓我們多看到人生的一些無奈，人性的複雜，要我說，就多一份對他人的寬容憐憫之心。
