Surrender
The letting go of mental emotional resistance to what is, also becomes a portal into the Unmanifested. The reason for this is simple: inner resistance cuts you off from other people from yourself, from the world around you. It strengthens the feeling of separate forms. The more you are bound to the world of form, the harder and more impenetrable your form identity becomes. The portal is closed, and you are cut off from the inner dimension, the dimension of depth. In the state of surrender, your form identity softens and becomes somewhat” transparent,” as it were, so the Unmanifeste can shine through you.
It’s up to you to open a portal in your life that gives you conscious access to the Unmanifested. Get in touch with the energy field of the inner body, be intensely present, disidentify from the mind, surrender to what is; there are all portals you can use but you only need to use one.
Surely love must also be one of those portals?
No, it isn’t. As soon as one of the portals is open, love is present in you as the “feeling – realization” of oneness. Love isn’t a portal it’s what comes through the portal into this world. As long as you are completely trapped in your form identity, there can be no love. Your task is not to search for love but to find a portal through which love enter.