科普一下： 失戀後rebound relationship的機理與作用

Defining a Rebound Relationship:

A rebound relationship is one that occurs shortly after the break-up of a significant love relationship. If you are in a relationship but have distanced yourself emotionally from your relationship partner, you may begin a rebound relationship before you even leave the relationship you are in. If you move quickly from a long lasting relationship into another relationship then you are probably in a “rebound relationship."

Rebound Relationships Serve a Purpose:

A rebound relationship is a distraction. It is a connection to another person that keeps us from having to experience the full extent of the emotional pain of our resent break – up. It is a misguided attempt to move on with our lives. Many people will jump back into the dating scene because they fear being alone. It’s a quick fix, one in which we can drown out our pain by reveling in the emotional intensity and passion of a new found love. It can be a a lot more fun that dealing with the misery of a recently broken heart.

本著科學的精神，注意到失戀者需要愛情苯乙胺來抵消其失戀後的沮喪。這種rebound relationship就像一副臨時性的藥，雖然不會服用終生，但顯然對抗失戀者憂鬱（depression)有積極作用。

本著科學的精神，注意到將rebound relationship公開化可能起到更大的暫時性治療作用。

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• 統計表明，rebound relationship 的成功率極低。 -阿裏- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:40:59

• 這個問題基本同意 -虎背熊腰大象腿- ♂ (113 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:47:03

• 人和人不同，難到失戀後自殺了，你們就同意。 -富婆星- ♀ (30 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:50:17

• 老虎敢騷擾 -阿裏- ♂ (28 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:52:24

• 哈哈，說好我當幹媽的，你咋保護我了？ -富婆星- ♀ (25 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:55:43

• 有個電影講先保護後媽，後來就 -阿裏- ♂ (15 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:58:25

• 既然他們願意有啥不好。 -富婆星- ♀ (32 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:47:08

• 是啊，教主支持。本想也參與進藥，但說錯一句話，被 -阿裏- ♂ (27 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:50:40

• 這個可以給昨天那個失戀的妹妹看看 -品儂- ♂ (58 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:48:25

• 失戀的妹妹是誰？ 沒看見啊。 -阿裏- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:51:25

• 記不起了 -品儂- ♂ (87 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:55:18

• 大家都為你捏把汗。 -阿裏- ♂ (49 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:57:25

• 哭窮唄 -虎背熊腰大象腿- ♂ (98 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 18:59:58

• 哈哈，笑吐血。 -富婆星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 19:01:17

• 對了，說說他 -品儂- ♂ (109 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 19:04:07

• 不恨。他人蠻好。“哪個人前不說人，哪個背後無人說？” -阿裏- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 19:15:58

• 阿裏的確是愛壇的大姐大， -虎背熊腰大象腿- ♂ (121 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 19:21:35

• 沒冒充，是longhand硬按的，還說大飛牛，大雨和小雨呢！ -阿裏- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 19:24:45

• 多謝你們關心 -品儂- ♂ (103 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 19:01:27

• 真心就好。不用擔心我。 -阿裏- ♂ (184 bytes) () 04/16/2011 postreply 19:07:35