what about this, am I 犯賤 too?

回答: 男人犯賤pink_rose2010-12-10 10:06:24

Many years ago, I split with my boyfriend. I do not regret we split but regret the  way I did it, it was hurtful. I heard he was single for a long time, but eventually got married and has two children. Recently I had a chance exchanging couple of e-mails with him about job. In the end of the discussion about job, I wrote the following:

"It was nice talking to you after all these years.
I find some confort in knowing you move on with your life with peace.
I was young and stupid, did not know what I did meant to other people.
  
Enjoy and send my greetings to your wife and children."

He did not answer.

Am I 犯賤? Is he still angry with me? I wish he could tell me he forgive me by now.:( 

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人能承認自己的錯誤是要很大的勇氣的。很佩服你這點 -月影如鉤- 給 月影如鉤 發送悄悄話 月影如鉤 的博客首頁 (60 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 10:54:00

絕對沒有。讓別人感覺受尊重,哪怕委屈自己一點是禮貌和美德。 -pink_rose- 給 pink_rose 發送悄悄話 (25 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 11:19:42

我覺得也是。在這種情況下,沉默是可以理解的。 -longhand- 給 longhand 發送悄悄話 longhand 的博客首頁 (129 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 11:38:48

I am the one who ran away, does he still need to worry about the -ysil- 給 ysil 發送悄悄話 (235 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 14:48:05

need to worry about the 1st scenarion? -ysil- 給 ysil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 14:48:50

No need to worry. He might just need some space -pink_rose- 給 pink_rose 發送悄悄話 (69 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 14:57:30

What did you do to hurt him? -longhand- 給 longhand 發送悄悄話 longhand 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 11:26:19

I was not nice to him. -ysil- 給 ysil 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 13:48:00

That does not mean "hurt." You might do something worse than "n -longhand- 給 longhand 發送悄悄話 longhand 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 20:28:22

let me add a few -180- 給 180 發送悄悄話 (438 bytes) () 12/10/2010 postreply 17:46:09

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