In a marriage, there will be a lot of stresses if the other half does not meet the expectations of the opposite party. When you meet the difficult times, to view life in a long run, you can choose to stay together or separate. However pros and cons will exist in all kinds of situations. You have to accept the consequences for your own choices.
Just simply to change a partner won't solve the problem, since everybody has his/her own problems.
If you were beaten by the hu*****and, you have to think if you verbally abused him. We are all equal to stand on the same earth. No one could expect others to give the life you want to have.
Pass the hard times, you will see sunshine.
Life is a single man's journey.