回複：為何我還放不下？

with so much support pouring in from so many readers, it shows that people care about you, even though people don't know you.That kind of pains and suffering is an universal emotion, more or less people have had some experience at some point in their life. Many people have gone through that and have survived it, and so can you.

cheer up, and move on. if it is not meant to be, then best way is to let go.

go out, and find some life. You don't necessarily have to rush into next relationship, you can go out and just hang out with some friends, males or females, regular friends. And who knows, that "right one" may be just there.

Chelsea Clinton who just got married last weekends, suffered a few failed love affairs. When she was in Standford, she was so heart broken once, so she hung out with Marc (then friend only) and chatted and seeked some console from him. Later their friendship turned into love. you never know.

so cheer up and live your life fully without him. (that is his loss). When you turn back and look back, you will be comforted that you have moved on. One month is still very short time, give it more time, and you will be fine.