relieve your burden

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回答: 鯨魚請進:海之鷹2010-08-02 17:44:41
I agree with one of the readers' reply. that is you need to let him know, how you feel, let him know that you are actually suffering, and in pains, and you miss you. Whether he respond to you or not, at least, you express your burden, and that in a way, will relieve you a little bit.

once you have said what you need to say, and if he still chooses the way he chose, to move on.. then you move on.. you gave yourself a chance and gave him a chance work out.

you can talk to close friends, even though they can't help you, but it will help you, it is a psychological relief. just like you are talking here. there is a song which said "i can't make you love me, if you don't". But you can make yourself "unlove" him. (or undo the love toward him, with time, and with rationality)..

he can't help you, nobody can help you, but you can.

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thx qsnfj - I am working on cutting him out from my life. We had -角落裏的鯨魚- 給 角落裏的鯨魚 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 08/05/2010 postreply 15:08:44

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