讀到這斷關於婚姻的評論 - 隻有愛是不夠的，婚姻讓愛情的變數曾大

"No one can really get ready for all of the eventualities of married life and family life, but it would be great if people stopped to think about some of the big topics that quite likely will appear in an average marriage: illness, lack of income, career changes, financial challenges, substance abuse and addictions of all kinds, division of domestic labor, sexual dysfunction, fertility and infertility, disputes in raising children, mental illness, problems with members of the extended family, and infidelity!

It’s great that love propels us into thoughts of a committed relationship. Few people, however, stop to think that this person they are in love with may NOT be the person with whom to build a lasting marriage! More people should face this before they even think about marriage!"

得不到婚姻的愛情確可以永恒，就是這個道理。精神世界沒有物質世界的攙和,好控製多了。

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• 愛情是個大騙局，婚姻是個小騙局。That's why 大凡都結了。。。 -iamyournewfriend- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:20:23

• 婚姻是個Institution，走進去了難出來。愛情沒有法律約束。 -莉莉百合- ♀ (40 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:29:01

• 愛情不是生活，生活是柴米油鹽， -敢言- ♂ (144 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:25:06

• 小說裏多的是啊。Ever happy after 或殉情出家的。 -莉莉百合- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:30:38

• 小說都是杜撰，現實生活中有這樣的實例嗎？ -敢言- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:33:48

• 我跑了。你說沒有就沒有吧。 -莉莉百合- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:37:34

• 沒有就沒有吧，你也不用跑啊～ -敢言- ♂ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 11:44:20

• 沒有婚姻的愛情，或快或慢就成了路人。 -金色的麥田- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 13:17:01

• 不見得！關鍵是看愛的支點在哪裏了，還有人的素質。我相信存在沒有婚姻的愛情一定是非常牢固的。 -淵淵- ♂ (90 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 13:21:59

• 經典～～ -Jesslulu- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 16:03:02

• 都是專家 -黑衣女俠- ♀ (0 bytes) () 06/19/2010 postreply 19:10:35