shocked - Need help!

Something happened. My bf's mom came over to visit. When she walked into the house, she gave my bf (her son) a hug and kissed him on his lips! It was a quick kiss. But I was shocked! They did it so naturally like it's totally normal! I have never seen them kissing each other on the lips before!

I asked my bf what's going on. He said it's tradition. His mom always kiss them (including his brothers) like that.

I noticed that my bf does not want to show too much passion toward me when his mom is around. I asked him why and he said that our relationship should be private.

My bf's dad passed away long time ago. His mom never remarry and does not have a bf right now. She is almost 70.

But is that kind of behavior normal?

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• 太正常了 -塞上孤星- ♀ (42 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:44:38

• 回複：太正常了 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (40 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:47:28

• 別想太多了 -塞上孤星- ♀ (108 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:57:08

• 回複：別想太多了 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (167 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:59:03

• 沒事啊，每家都有家庭傳統 -塞上孤星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:01:26

• 多交幾個就有的是看了：) -罌粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:02:30

• 你愛他就允許他做他喜歡做的事情? -罌粟花- ♀ (15 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:01:40

• 回複：你愛他就允許他做他喜歡做的事情? -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (84 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:03:32

• 偶說的不是這意思， -罌粟花- ♀ (81 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:07:52

• o(∩_∩)o...哈哈 -塞上孤星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:13:04

• 回複：偶說的不是這意思， -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (17 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:13:51

• 哈，當你有了兒子的時候，你就不會這樣胡思亂想了， -把酒話桑麻- ♀ (116 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:51:08

• 回複：哈，當你有了兒子的時候，你就不會這樣胡思亂想了， -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (47 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:52:36

• yes,very normal! -把酒話桑麻- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:54:09

• 見過，好象沒人大驚小怪。 -罌粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:54:17

• 回複：見過，好象沒人大驚小怪。 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (32 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:56:56

• 何況 -淘淘寶寶- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:11:53

• 這男孩很細心體貼，對他媽， -罌粟花- ♀ (105 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:52:33

• 回複：這男孩很細心體貼，對他媽， -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (91 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:53:25

• 吻禮有好幾種的，見慣就不怪了：) -罌粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:55:19

• 回複：吻禮有好幾種的，見慣就不怪了：) -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (63 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:56:03

• 唉，現實中沒你好福氣啊，有個金發碧眼的BF，隻在教會和電影裏看過。 -罌粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:00:44

• 回複：唉，現實中沒你好福氣啊，有個金發碧眼的BF，隻在教會和電影裏看過。 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (17 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:02:18

• 我把老公，情人，兒子都當兒子嗬嗬嗬 -塞上孤星- ♀ (36 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:58:46

• 回複：我把老公，情人，兒子都當兒子嗬嗬嗬 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (59 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:59:48

• 我兒子不讓，我就不親 -塞上孤星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:02:14

• its ok, dont worry! -青柏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:53:44

• 回複：its ok, dont worry! -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (44 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 19:55:23

• 哈哈，笑死了，你那麽在意就拉倒啦，都70歲的老太婆了，想那多有意思嗎：) -罌粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:05:23

• 回複：哈哈，笑死了，你那麽在意就拉倒啦，都70歲的老太婆了，想那多有意思嗎：) -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (62 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:11:17

• 他們沒上一張床吧？ -罌粟花- ♀ (94 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:15:04

• 回複：他們沒上一張床吧？ -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (171 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:17:33

• 那就直接告訴你朋友說你不喜歡他們這樣 -青柏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:16:33

• 回複：那就直接告訴你朋友說你不喜歡他們這樣 -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (81 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:18:18

• thats enogh -青柏- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:28:39

• 回複：thats enogh -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (11 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:31:43

• 我說大妹子, 別聽樓上那幫老太太的, 我都直起雞皮疙瘩. -鐵塔哥- ♂ (38 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:11:24

• 回複：我說大妹子, 別聽樓上那幫老太太的, 我都直起雞皮疙瘩. -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (107 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:13:06

• 接個吻沒啥了不起的，關鍵看他是否凡事都聽他媽的 -舞鶴- ♀ (84 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:16:05

• 的確與眾不同,更何況他有意疏遠你,這事我們男人不夾雜感情色彩. -鐵塔哥- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:16:11

• 回複：的確與眾不同,更何況他有意疏遠你,這事我們男人不夾雜感情色彩. -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (96 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:20:03

• 我沒有什麽理論,隻是談我個人的感受. -鐵塔哥- ♂ (77 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:31:26

• 回複：我沒有什麽理論,隻是談我個人的感受. -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (170 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:36:46

• Just don't ask, let it go, you won't get the truth -鐵塔哥- ♂ (96 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:41:57

• 回複：Just don't ask, let it go, you won't get the truth -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (47 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:43:51

• 回複：的確與眾不同,更何況他有意疏遠你,這事我們男人不夾雜感情色彩. -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (145 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:21:18

• 你好象不推理出他和他媽有一腿就沒法說服自己：) -罌粟花- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:24:10

• 回複：你好象不推理出他和他媽有一腿就沒法說服自己：) -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (84 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:30:30

• 歧視啊，歧視 -塞上孤星- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:14:55

• 哈哈哈...... 哈哈哈...... -學詩男孩- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:32:11

• 別在這兒傻笑, 快找你蛐蛐大叔, 貧農大舅去. 今兒這是怎麽了? -鐵塔哥- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:37:03

• 鐵疙瘩一塊兒，哪兒來的雞皮疙瘩？ -鐵老石- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:41:27

• 幹嘛這麽小看人, 俺塔上老落鳳凰. -鐵塔哥- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 20:46:36

• It is kind of sick! Something is wrong. -longhand- ♂ (0 bytes) () 04/23/2010 postreply 21:28:45

• At least your bf is a Mommy's little boy to be sure. Walk away f -泡桐花開- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 01:21:13

• very normal -howcan^- ♀ (156 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 06:09:30

• 回複：very normal -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (51 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 15:12:23

• u hv a long way to go dealing with ur future mil. this's -quark001- ♂ (61 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 08:11:39

• any advise? -lifeisuncertainty- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/24/2010 postreply 15:11:37