你這個說法權威嗎？@_@

My impression is people around pleaser are happier, However accepter are happier than pleasers themself.

The reason being accepter are good at let people know their needs, and insist on getting their need meet. On the other hand, pleasers tend to keep their desire inside, or very easily give up. They are not good communicators.

Certainly, pleasers will have easier time fit into the society.

My daughter is a natural pleaser, we always encourage her to standup for what she wants and do not give up easily. That does not mean she should not make compromises.

My two cents.