回複：pjx, 謝謝你,

First, you need to make sure that you truely love him not just like him. There is a fundamental difference between the two.

Second, did you express your feelings clearly? Many Chinese women want men to guess. To some, it is ok; to others, it is not. They may think, come on, she is not clear about her feelings.

I believe, most men who are not flirting (you need to make sure about this) would tell you his true feelings. If a man is flirting or soliciting love all the time (like Chen Guan Xian), he is not deserving any love at all. Unfortunately, many women just loved him; this is true for men as well.