我覺得不管你做怎麽樣的選擇,你要保護你的利益,你的將來。我不是很讚同你放棄工作,去香港。因為這樣你的損失會更大。如果他們之間很熱火的話,你是阻止不了他的。再說他的態度好像很明朗。
要相信自己,you will be fine with or without him, and live the attitude out, there is a small chance you surprise him and change the way he think about you.
It must be so very hard to be in your shoes right now, but it will pass. Hug~~~