上次電話說到一半,他辦公室去人,他不耐煩的說:Can you call me some other time?我什麽也沒說,他該口:When are you leaving (out of town)? Monday? 我回答:Sunday.他說:Have fun!我不吭聲,壓了電話。這期間,我一直關機。到辦公室後,我知道他沒找好借口是不會給我打電話的電話。幾天後,接到他的電話,一些“工作問題”後,他慢慢問我:怎麽了?I was busy.... Then, you never call me again...I was not yelling... I need to worry that everyone has work to do...我隨便和他說了幾句,他又說:sounds familiar! like my 2nd wife. You are demanding. You complain a lot。我壓了電話。
兩頭後 (我一直沒給他電話),他來辦公室辦事,發現他的餘光一直在看我。其間,他抽空來到我辦公室,清聲問我:Are you still mad at me? 我不理他,他用紙拍我,我回敬他兩拳,算是重歸於好了。
我理解因為我們的條件限製,都不可能任性,保持距離是對雙方有有益,可會留戀我們的“親密交談”。留戀他的sweet和caring,留戀我們的過去!