有興趣的話，下麵是個老貼：依戀症及 codependency

People in general like attention from others. The tendency is that the more they get it, the more they want it. There is nothing wrong with it except that sometimes, it gets addictive and the need for attention could become too much. It takes a healthy and mentally strong person to break away from the need for excessive attention. Keep on feeding a mentally weak person with attention is not a solution, it just gets the person more and more addicted and the attention giver becomes an enabler.

An enabler, is a person who by their actions make it easier for an addict to continue their self-destructive behavior by criticizing or rescuing. The term codependency refers to a relationship where one or both parties enable the other to act in certain maladaptive ways. Many times, the act of the enabler satisfies a need for the codependent person because his or her actions foster a need from the other person or persons in the relationship.

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• 謝謝，有道理。 -那一朵紫花- ♀ (151 bytes) () 03/09/2009 postreply 21:28:32