do your best

i read your article and the comments from different readers. I don't want to say anymore, the answer is clear, you know what is good for you and what will hurt you and most people also pointed that out to you. 99% of the women want to be eventually sharing their lives with the men they love, married men or men with relationships can never give you that. If you are that 1%, maybe different story. Human love is an exclusive love by nature.

you said you understand all the reasonings, but you can't help youself.

for some people, once they undertand the rationale, once they convince themselves, they can pull out, detach, and move on, relatively easier, they think with their heads, not their hearts, but some people will not be able to do that, until they are very much hurt.

i hope you are the first type, who can move on easily, and if you are the second type, hope you manage to move on before you get too deeply hurt, or to let the situation out of control, or somebody get hurt (in every way).

time will help, but reading, talking to a good friend, or a psychologist may help (not the HK psychologist guy, but an independent third party).

meanwhile, if you want to think independently, you have to detach first from those complicated situation.

good luck.

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• 謝謝你 -midsummer- ♀ (919 bytes) () 02/02/2009 postreply 04:16:44