上麵有很多好建議, 不多說了。能做到迎合你LP的,你該爭取去做。如果你盡力了,你LP還不能接受你的話,也隻好順其自然了。每人都有自己的人生觀,如果為了迎合他人,完全失去自己,恐怕你也不會幸福。Your wife have a very tough decision to make, I just wish her love for you is able to overcome her desire for your career ambition and other personality mismatch.
祝福你!