here is his mistake:

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回答: 那要看他等了多久,好看?2009-01-20 12:06:07

I am going to be critical here, hope you do not mind,
His debt to the girl's father is financial, although he had promised to marry her, he should know a financial debt can not be repaid by emotions. If he tries, he will hurt himself, and both of the girls. Living in modern society, he should have enough courage to break his promise, which is unfair to him and the girl to start with, and repay his financial debt with monetary means.

I do not have answer for your question about them being "just friends", I guess it depends on both of them.

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回複:here is his mistake: -婉如清揚- 給 婉如清揚 發送悄悄話 婉如清揚 的博客首頁 (88 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 12:59:12

she has to live for herself, why care about what others think? -好看?- 給 好看? 發送悄悄話 好看? 的博客首頁 (128 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:01:31

If "other people" means her spouse, then -好看?- 給 好看? 發送悄悄話 好看? 的博客首頁 (233 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:12:25

同意,除了自己的想法,還是要照顧一下當前的他的想法。其實有時 -fpxjz- 給 fpxjz 發送悄悄話 (48 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:24:48

看來我和你會做同樣的選擇, -好看?- 給 好看? 發送悄悄話 好看? 的博客首頁 (43 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:28:44

謝謝, -婉如清揚- 給 婉如清揚 發送悄悄話 婉如清揚 的博客首頁 (34 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:36:17

Thanks, -婉如清揚- 給 婉如清揚 發送悄悄話 婉如清揚 的博客首頁 (97 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:23:08

那就跟著感覺走好了,good luck! -好看?- 給 好看? 發送悄悄話 好看? 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 01/20/2009 postreply 13:26:37

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