中庸之道吧。authoritative parenting...不過說起來容易做起來難，經常想罷工，愛誰誰。

Authoritative. In this parenting style, the parents are nurturing, responsive, and supportive, yet set firm limits for their children. They attempt to control children's behavior by explaining rules, discussing, and reasoning. They listen to a child's viewpoint but don't always accept it.