if it is man, of course the french chick has the right attitude. so the man travels and works around the world, so he has a lot of stress in his professional work, so he needs to give his dick some comfort occasionally, so what. he is a Frenchman, not jesus christ. if it is woman, the answere would be 50/50. there are women who will show a forgiving face in public (read: bill clinton and eliot spitzer's wifves), and there are women who will not (read, Terminator and congressman weiner's wives). one newspaper article said, Weiner has humiliated his wife in twitter, why should she allow herself to be humilated in public?