You are mistaken grossly here.

I am against an idea, no any individual, for example I never directly accuse YOU for doing anything wrong in this conversation. You and many like you,on the other hand, are attacking the person (in this case ME ) that is holding the idea that is different from yours. In doing so, you create enemies without resolving any disagreement. I think it is the particular tactic used predominantly by Chinese causes all the in-flights among Chinese.

If you and the Chinese like you can learn to focus on ideas and not the people holding ideas, you will see the world in a very different light. You'll have fewer enemies there.

If you don't understand what I am saying here, that is fine too. Pardon me for not saying more.