From NYtimes: Questions Couples Should Ask (Or Wish They Had) Before Marrying Published: December 17, 2006 Relationship experts report that too many couples fail to ask each other critical questions before marrying. Here are a few key ones that couples should consider asking: 1) Have we discussed whether or not to have children, and if the answer is yes, who is going to be the primary care giver? 2) Do we have a clear idea of each other’s financial obligations and goals, and do our ideas about spending and saving mesh? 3) Have we discussed our expectations for how the household will be maintained, and are we in agreement on who will manage the chores? 4) Have we fully disclosed our health histories, both physical and mental? 5) Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect? 6) Can we comfortably and openly discuss our sexual needs, preferences and fears? 7) Will there be a television in the bedroom? 8) Do we truly listen to each other and fairly consider one another’s ideas and complaints? 9) Have we reached a clear understanding of each other’s spiritual beliefs and needs, and have we discussed when and how our children will be exposed to religious/moral education? 10) Do we like and respect each other’s friends? 11) Do we value and respect each other’s parents, and is either of us concerned about whether the parents will interfere with the relationship? 12) What does my family do that annoys you? 13) Are there some things that you and I are NOT prepared to give up in the marriage? 14) If one of us were to be offered a career opportunity in a location far from the other’s family, are we prepared to move? 15) Do each of us feel fully confident in the other’s commitment to the marriage and believe that the bond can survive whatever challenges we may face?
黃舒駿:她以為她很美麗
禁不起一片寂寞飄落心底
我實在沒出息
不可以,我一定要專心
為什麽春天加上青春期
我就克製不了自己
不可以,真是罪大惡極
爸爸說考上大學後
春天才會真的來臨
到時候要交什麽樣的女孩子不可以
她以為她很美麗
其實隻有背影還可以
我一點都不在意
她以為她很美麗
其實隻有頭發還可以
我理都不想理
人家說我們考上醫學係的學生最得意
蹲在家裏自然會有人來相親
為什麽我已念到六年級
卻沒有一點動靜
看上我的隻有病人和細菌
他們說將來開業賺大錢
春天才會真的來臨
到時候要娶什麽樣的女孩子不可以
自古都是英雄愛美女
不是英雄也愛美女
但這年頭的英雄和美女如何定義
是誰曾經這麽告訴我
內在美獲得最後勝利
誰知道你在說的時候
心裏想的什麽東西
路上車子價值越名貴
裏麵女人就越美麗
什麽道理,我就沒這個福氣
今年過年我就參拾柒
擁有事業和學曆
為什麽,就是沒有愛的訊息
究竟我還需要多少努力
春天才會真的來臨
到時候難道隻要是女孩子就可以
她以為她很美麗
其實隻有眼睛還可以
我理都不想理
她以為她很美麗
其實隻有衣服還可以
我理都不想理
