主角媽媽做的對。幾個碗就是得留給他洗。他不洗,就放在那裏地老天荒。和我老公一個樣的。讓他洗個鍋他就要等會兒,催幾遍他就要發脾氣。最後我終於學會,冷著臉看著什麽話也不說,因為一旦開口就要吵架,自己生悶氣比吵架氣得還少點。習慣了之後也就不怎麽生氣了。他不幹的話那活兒就永遠在那裏。髒亂大家一起承受。我也豁出去了,不怕別人來我家看見髒亂,世上人take for granted that cleaning is the lady' responsibility, I don't agree and I am brave enough to get over this mental hurdle myself and 心硬皮厚到不怕別人的judgement.
然後呢?經曆了COUPLE YEARS of dirtyness, it seems improved and he learned to do more shares.