consult a lawyer is necessary since you did not prepare

for this divorce at all. It is expensive but it worths it right now especially when he has an experienced girl friend. Even if in no fault divorce state, the adultery is still taking into consideration by the court when it comes to the final decision. You were obviously manipulated in this case, you indeed need to talk to a lawyer or mediator who is relatively cheaper.

Once you respond to his service, you two are into this mediating stage which is negotiating stage. When you can't come to an agreement, then it will go to contest trial, that is very very very expensive. Since you don't have a job, you may consult a lawyer and see if your hu*****and can pay for you.

Hire a lawyer is a must when it comes to the contested divorce.