want to adopt a child from China to the US, please advice

I am considering adopting a child in China. I have myown son at age of 5. Now my question is:

1. Is it better to adopt a son or a daughter for my family and for my son?
2. What age is the best for adopted child?
3. How to adopt a child from China? I want the child to be healthy, no any defects, as the minimum requirement. Further, try hard to get one smarter and more beautiful.

Please advice. Thanks a lot.

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回複:want to adopt a child from China to the US, please advice -單身老貓- 給 單身老貓 發送悄悄話 單身老貓 的博客首頁 (53 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 10:47:21

thanks a lot -相見不如不相見- 給 相見不如不相見 發送悄悄話 相見不如不相見 的博客首頁 (0 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 11:27:38

回複:want to adopt a child from China to the US, please advice -千裏孤墳- 給 千裏孤墳 發送悄悄話 (700 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 12:15:41

你還沒看她在其他壇子問adopt以後能不能退貨呢~~ -小小巧克力豆- 給 小小巧克力豆 發送悄悄話 小小巧克力豆 的博客首頁 (32 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 12:44:59

對,用的還是return “it“!還說如果一歲左右領養太小,too much work... -shengY- 給 shengY 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 14:33:09

的確令人發指 -不好回答的問題- 給 不好回答的問題 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2009 postreply 12:58:08

Well said. Her heart is not big enough to adopt. -totem- 給 totem 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 19:03:29

回複:回複:want to adopt a child from China to the US, please advice -千裏孤墳- 給 千裏孤墳 發送悄悄話 (0 bytes) () 06/23/2009 postreply 07:08:17

if you can't love a kid unconditionally, you are not ready to -如塵- 給 如塵 發送悄悄話 (84 bytes) () 06/22/2009 postreply 12:45:30

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