If you want to get back

your daughter through court, you have to find a job and have enough income to support both you and your daughter. Although the father has to pay chldren support if you get your daughter your income will help you a lot in court. If you have a normal job and have normal life then the court will believe you are a normal person and can bring up your daughter normally. You need laywer. Control your emtion. He left you. It is a fact and you have to face it. It is also a good lesson for all the chinese girls who are dreaming to get a wealth America hu*****and. Your failure is that you lost yourself in your marrage. You quit your job. Try to get a job and get income and hire a laywer to fight. I can image your feeling about losing your daughter. Fight is your only way. Struggle for survive. That is America. Good luck.