回複：哭求，想聽聽大家的看法：這段婚姻還要必要繼續下去嗎？

American culture encourages the development of individualism which can turn into extreme selfishness without appropriate control and guidance. Many Americans rely on church sttendance/service to moderate their behavior. On the other hand, Chinese culture values collective effort and sharing, which tend to make the society more harmonious but at the expense of individualism.

It looks to me that after 8 years in the USA, your hu*****and has become a very individualistic/selfish person (without any spiritual guidance, such as attending regular church services). I see no prospect that he'll change his personality, behavior and attitude while he is still and will continues to be in America. To me the best outcome for you is to make a hard decision to return to China and restart your life anew there, as it is no too late for you to do this now.