If my BF left me while I am pregnant, I won't take him back.

來源: N. 於 2008-12-17 19:43:32 [] [博客] [舊帖] [給我悄悄話] 閱讀數 : (639 bytes)

From your post, your BF is a trash. How could any decent person treat the mother of his child like this? ("他就消失了，期間隻給我發了2封郵件，第一封建議我去流產，當時孩子已經將近22周，第二封告訴我我不是個好人，時間會證明一切。")

I think adoption is a valid choice for you. You can select adopting parents, i.e., find a good family for the baby. I do understand that no mother wants to give her own baby away. However, the reason should never be that "wish the baby's father to come back to me one day". Being a single mother is tough; but very doable, especially in the States.

No matter what your choice is, good luck!

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