回複：Help, getting a divorce , husbnad is going to war with me

you need to talk to a real estate lawyer and see how it goes. if the house is still in his name, it's HE who should take the loss. if the house is under both of your name, you take the half of the lose between the appraisal year and half ago and now. you two put 90K in, half of that is yours, when you took 120K out, in my opinion, that's the money he agree for both of you to use as a general fund,

bottom line is that you need to talk to a lawyer. I don't think you owe him the amount he claimed. he may owe you because the remodeling.