file divorce in the local family court

and find a good lawyer. Once divorce is granted, he'll have to pay for the child support and your maintenance if you don't have a job. Please remember NEVER let him know that you will do this, and please do not negotiate with him, find a attorney immediately. Please do not think he'll have any mercy on you. With kid of 7 month old, he has no heart at all. You can find an attorny at local high court (family court section, they will provide you a list of attornys, and you normally have half an hour free consultation)

Once the case is filed, the court has his SSO. Unless he is going to work for a rather small company that IRS doesn't even have a record or he'll never come back to the state (which is impossible), the child support and your maintenance will be directly deducted from his payroll by the company he works for (you'll have to work with your attorney on this).

Don't make any private agreement with him, the law will not provide you any support upon private agreement.

Last not the least, the attorney fee will be deducted from his salary too if the attorney you are to talk to is really good.

Good luck

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