Do NOT push too hard

when talking about divorce, the woman always looks very sad , very weak and crying for help. Whenever I saw such posting, it strikes me that horrible woman I married to. All she wanted is money and my 10-years hard earned money became sunk cost.
I only have advice to you: Don't push too hard, he can always find a way to give you nothing. Don't push him into "nothing to lose" situation. Once it is in that scenario - you won't get anything. Don't estimate the power of determined mind!!!