nine years old, wow!She will miss her grandparents much.Life is tough and tricky for her. Taking her away from her grandparents will be heartbroken.When the child is older, this is the right case. The child needs to explore and learns about her home in order to begin to trust that she is staying in one place and her parent is devoted to her. Older child understands what is happening to a certain extent, but that doesn't mean she is not unsure of what is happening. Imagine being put into a new place without any idea of where you were going necessarily or if the parent was nice and loving. It's difficult for anyone to imagine.