no I don't agree. sure you shouldn't tell her to blow you out. but she is not supposed to threaten your life for any reason. I think there is some simple rules for gun holder. and the rules vary in different states. in some states, you can take your gun with you in a gun-holder; however, you can't threaten someone else's life with that. There is a serious penalty resulted otherwise. go to a gun shop and find out. ask the shopkeeper what if you show your gun to threaten one's life. Look showing one's gun is not even as serious as aiming at someone.