To: alwaynew -- Please, tell the whole story

You did not provide many facts, please tell the whole story, so people can have a balanced and neutral view, and they can be more helpful to you and your family.

You did not mention you had a kid -- this is a very important piece of information. In any marriage issue, children's interest must be put first. You did not mention you fell as a victim of your wife's domestic violence -- this is another very important piece of information, it becomes a criminal issue whenever violence is involved.

What you need is not broken pieces of legal and ethical suggestions and criticism, what you need is an overall good planning and strategy to shoot the issue, so that the trouble can be fixed in a way optimal to all parties involved -- your kid first, then you yourself (given that you're the victim), then your wife (no matter what she has done, her civil rights must be respected).

Please provide more facts, of course if you're willing to and wish to, please be honest, there is no need to fake -- help will be more valid and solid if it's based on true facts.

It seems your English is fine for communication, so there is no need to bother typing in Chinese. Deal?

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• Two words: Child support. -oncej1- ♂ (138 bytes) () 09/13/2008 postreply 09:18:35