mytree, Please give me more suggestions

Mytree:

Your advice may let me think in a different way. I may be a selfish man. But please convince me of this. How do you get this feeling? What kind problem will I face in the future?

My wife thinks I always want to win an arguement, so she always goes in opposite to my advice. Right now I donot argue with her. When she askes for suggestion, like beef or fish for dinner, I say whatever you want is good. Maybe this makes her more angry. I knew I made some mistakes in the past to build up a good relationship with her, like watching TV togher... When we disagree on something, like she wants to see the sport, I just walked away to go online.

Right now I donot care about the money. If my wife can get better, I will spend all money. Money means nothing if your life is in a mess.

thanks!