回複：多謝了.現在我最想做的事是自立,

You may wait until you get a job this way, you do not have to divde too much of his money and he only has to pay child support...but communication is the key, there are always some misunderstanding somewhere but whoever raise the finger should know the law in US (he can be arrested for physical abuse and put inot prison) tell him this, that gentleman use 'mouth:speech' not hand: violence'