1. Top priority: make sure you safe, your baby safe, you get enough money, whatever, take no chance! -- You may want to consider hiring you own lawyer for this, for the civil part, the criminal part is the prosecutor's job. Never talk to his lawyer or whatever representatives from him, for example his brother,sister, let your lawyer handle that.
2. Have him, or whoever that cares about him pay for your legal fee. Which means, you hire your lawyer, and bill the legal expense to him. Then just assume he is great, as he has got so great brothers and sisters, who have so many ideas about his family's life and peace -- they should also have very good idea about how to pay for your lawyer's bill.
3. Any time they want to contact you, have them go through your lawyer. For your hu*****and, I would suggest let his lawyer talk to your lawyer, for your hu*****and's brother and sister, I would suggest you have them go through your lawyer too, but charge them for any minute you give them, at a rate like $200 per hour (and tell them you have given them discount, for the goodness that they care about their brother so much.)
2. Have him, or whoever that cares about him pay for your legal fee. Which means, you hire your lawyer, and bill the legal expense to him. Then just assume he is great, as he has got so great brothers and sisters, who have so many ideas about his family's life and peace -- they should also have very good idea about how to pay for your lawyer's bill.
3. Any time they want to contact you, have them go through your lawyer. For your hu*****and, I would suggest let his lawyer talk to your lawyer, for your hu*****and's brother and sister, I would suggest you have them go through your lawyer too, but charge them for any minute you give them, at a rate like $200 per hour (and tell them you have given them discount, for the goodness that they care about their brother so much.)