It's not so easy, buddy!

Two choice, first, talk to her, ask if you can bring ur child back to China, since you know her very well, you should know if she agrees or not, usually she won't agree.
Second, chooce a good time, take your child back to china without tell her, I think once you departure from the US costom, you wil be saftey even your wife find it at that time and call police.
However, Have you thought about your child's feeling? He would lose his Mom, how pain would it be for him? If he is not happy in rest his life, as his dad, would be happy? Better not to chooce this way!
It's difficult for you now, I understand, but don't give up, man, you're a man, other people can survive in USA, why can't you? Believe it, this tough time will pass soon compare to your whole life.
You may also collect the evidence that she has fault to break the marriage as well as the child's family, then the judge probably reward the custody of the child to you, so why flee away?
If you want to talk some more detail, I'd like to help you if you want.

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• well, .... -xucc- ♀ (392 bytes) () 05/24/2004 postreply 12:37:44

• 送回去也許是對你最好的辦法, 沒有過不去的火焰山, -stp- ♀ (54 bytes) () 05/24/2004 postreply 15:39:52

• 回複：well, .... -davidwu70- ♀ (1269 bytes) () 05/24/2004 postreply 18:28:43

• 回複：回複：well, .... -xucc- ♀ (472 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 06:13:04

• 回複：回複：回複：well, .... -davidwu70- ♀ (782 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 07:15:15

• 回複：回複：回複：回複：well, .... -xucc- ♀ (1098 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 14:33:01

• Actually , I am -xucc- ♀ (285 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 15:08:02

• From career point of view, -xucc- ♀ (163 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 15:09:38

• Go to church is a good choice! -davidwu70- ♀ (668 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 18:50:14

• she is not such a person -xucc- ♀ (239 bytes) () 05/26/2004 postreply 07:06:28

• try to find some nice church f -friends...- ♀ (516 bytes) () 05/26/2004 postreply 07:22:46

• I have tried this for several -xucc- ♀ (32 bytes) () 05/26/2004 postreply 08:06:10

• 既然是這樣，為什麽不joint custody? 你們每人各 -也來說說，，- ♀ (124 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 13:55:29

• it's not up to the father, so -jointcusto- ♀ (230 bytes) () 05/25/2004 postreply 18:26:52