order first. Then you won't have problems taking the child with you. Don't be too nice to him since he's a heartless man. He'll only give in to authorities since he's a bully. You deserve someone better. Don't tolerate his violence anymore. I'll pray for you and your son. Good luck to you both. Don't be afraid of him. He's actually a coward who has to abuse a woman to maintain his self respect. Disgusting guy! Hugs to you.